A Lesson in Love From My Dr. Cupid
Finding the right person is very hard and very
wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one
you love and start from there. You’ll always end up
disappointed when you set standards and define
a "right person" for you…and don’t rush things coz
somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody
for you."
Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love if you insist that
you are already into it. Try to find time to really
understand your real feelings, to know who you
really are, and what you really want in a
relationship.
You’re right, there’s no such thing as a perfect
relationship, but there’s a compatible partnership
that goes along with it. If you already knew that
you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt,
don’t
give it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay
for the
damages you have made. If you knew and felt that
the relationship will not last, don’t go deeper
into it.
You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like
hell for the rest of your life. It’s really hard
to say
goodbye though, but you can’t make it any better
by just pretending you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life
to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and
give your heart a much needed attention. Then you
will find that you have made the right Decision and
you made it all by yourself. We call it love when
we can’t leave someone and see them crying as
we try to let go. We are wrong, it’s just pity. We
call it love when we’re too attached and think that
losing the one we love will somehow make us
weak and unable to face the storms of life.
We misunderstood; it’s just that we’re too much
dependent to them. We call it love when we give
our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and
imagined that if they leave, no one would accept
us and our past. We are mistaken, its just
insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the
truth still remains that love isn’t something you can
buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch
it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t
find it,
but it will knock before you when you least expect
it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in
heaven, but don’t forget that it can also make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
"When you lose someone… and you think you
were the one who loved most, between the two of
you… he lost more. For someday you can love
someone the way that you loved him…But he will
never be loved again the way that you did."
